Thank you for your interest in my book, "I Got Up: A Mother's Story of Grief, Resilience, and Unending Love". It is a deeply personal journey through loss, resilience, and healing. It’s an honest account of my experiences and the insights I’ve gained along the way. I hope it offers you comfort, understanding, and inspiration.


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"A candid, courageous memoir about two deeply stigmatized topics - traumatic brain injury and a mother's disenfranchised grief over the loss of her son. Brenda's story tackles these two difficult subjects with honesty and authenticity; the book will resonate with all mothers who deeply love their children. Moving and enlightening!"

- FERN SCHUMER CHAPMAN, Author of Brothers, Sisters, Strangers, Motherland

"Touching... This book tells a heartfelt story of a single Mother who defied all odds at a time when it wasn't acceptable to raise a son alone and learning more about life and love. The author does an excellent job of opening up and revealing the highs and lows of struggling with TBI, addiction and grief. Hoping this helps others in their healing process."

- LORI R, READER

"In "I Got Up," Brenda delivers a gut-wrenching narrative of open vulnerability. Her compelling prose combined with her raw honesty, creates a powerful and emotionally resonant journey of self-discovery and the transformative power of resilience. This book is a must-read for those seeking a compelling narrative that will grip your heart and inspire you to move forward." 

- JANE D, READER

"It's astounding how Brenda can be vulnerable and express her raw emotions about the obstacles a parent has to face when a child has this horrible condition, and I can't wait to see how it helps others heal. Managing her personal and family life alongside her son's clinical condition is a remarkable accomplishment that no parent should ever have to endure. The bond they shared will leave a lasting impression in your memory."

- SARA M., READER

"Captivating. The words, sentences, paragraphs and pages keep you wanting in anticipation of where the story takes you next. Your expectation is to be submersed into a story of grief and pain. But the beauty of this book and the chapters is that it lays it out in layers, each building upon itself..."

- THOMAS H., READER

"...A map of a life and love and the origins of it that ultimately define the mystery and complexity of grief. The humanness of affection, connection, relations, social perception, social persecution, the value of life, the mystery of love and the pain of its permanent absence. A beautiful read of the life behind the loss."

- THOMAS H., READER

Want an Interactive Way to Process Your Grief?

A Grief Journal for Bereaved Parents is a guided workbook designed to help you process emotions, honor your child’s memory, and navigate life after loss. With thoughtful prompts and space for reflection, it offers a hands-on way to move through grief at your own pace.

A Grief Journal for Bereaved Parents

A Grief Journal for Bereaved Parents

Grief is a lifelong journey—one that no parent should have to walk alone. This guided workbook provides space to process your emotions, honor your child, and navigate life after loss with thoughtful prompts, coping strategies, and room for reflection.

This journal isn’t about "moving on"—it’s about carrying your child’s love forward in a way that feels right for you.

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Writing Through Loss, Remembering with Love

Writing Through Loss, Remembering with Love